This is a question which most of us have asked atleast once in our lives. The reasons differ, the circumstances differ, people are different, the manner in which this question is asked differs... but we happen to ask this question to ourselves consiously or unconsiously.
What makes us ask this question. People in general do not WANT anything bad to happen with them... I mean nobody wants rain in the morning before they reach office, nobody wants to be dumped by his girlfriend, nobody wants to get less increase in the salary, nobody wants a boss with whom your relations are bad... but still it happens... and we ask this question to us... why always me??
Most of the reasons cited above or otherwise, would be external factors, on which we do not have much control on. So, we just cannot make them not to happen or stop them from happening. Still we want and pray to God that it doesn't rain in the morning and so on...
What exactly can we do so that we consiously as well as unconsiously to stop asking this question? There can be no right or wrong answers. everyone faces this situation and has/ would find ways to get out of it as well.
In my opinion, one has to be forward looking and needs to confront situations as challenges wherein you always cannot win. we have to realize that good and bad things/ happenings are part and parcel of life and if any of these two is absent then the life will be single paced and a little boring !!
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